What would your reaction be if you caught your wife lying naked in the arms of another guy? Would you smile? Would you laugh? Most husbands can't provide concrete answers for these questions. Some are speechless and just let those tears to fall. Others would become more vicious. Of course, it's natural for a cheated husband to react like that.
Building a family is not simple. Engagement period comes before marriage to determine each other's strength and weaknesses, measure each other's loyalty, and to create a stronger commitment with each other. In this period as well, you can foresee the future of the relationship and you can't say "I thought you're good, but I'm wrong."
It's Not Mine
No one is completely without fault. We all have our strengths and weaknesses. We all do things that, in the eyes of another person, are bad. We even do things we feel are bad but sometimes just can't help ourselves (or at least feel as though we can't). That doesn't make us all bad people.
It's not easy to forgive and to forget especially if there's something to keep you reminded. Taking drugs or drinking liquors can't help you solve the issue. Acceptance is the answer. Accept and embrace the reality with open heart and that's the time you can move on.
I Love you, but why?
Technically, love is not the only piece most wives are looking for. They need attention and genuine care from their husbands. Just like men, some women have affairs, too. In fact, the number of women cheating on their husbands has risen dramatically.
There are no perfect marriages and you don't have a choice if it doesn't work as to your expectation. You can't force her to stay with you for a lifetime if she's no longer contented with you. Remember, successful relationships involve each other's commitment to give and take.
You can't simply end your relationship by leaving your partner/wife alone in a corner. Legal matters are needed to make it rightful. You can consult a legal representative to help you out with your decision. Make sure as well that you won't regret whatever choice you'll make.
If you caught your wife having some condoms in her wallet but does not use one during your sexual encounters, you might start to wonder. You could hire a private detective if you want, but evaluate yourself first. Maybe there's something missing in you or you're not performing well as her husband.
Building a family is not simple. Engagement period comes before marriage to determine each other's strength and weaknesses, measure each other's loyalty, and to create a stronger commitment with each other. In this period as well, you can foresee the future of the relationship and you can't say "I thought you're good, but I'm wrong."
It's Not Mine
No one is completely without fault. We all have our strengths and weaknesses. We all do things that, in the eyes of another person, are bad. We even do things we feel are bad but sometimes just can't help ourselves (or at least feel as though we can't). That doesn't make us all bad people.
It's not easy to forgive and to forget especially if there's something to keep you reminded. Taking drugs or drinking liquors can't help you solve the issue. Acceptance is the answer. Accept and embrace the reality with open heart and that's the time you can move on.
I Love you, but why?
Technically, love is not the only piece most wives are looking for. They need attention and genuine care from their husbands. Just like men, some women have affairs, too. In fact, the number of women cheating on their husbands has risen dramatically.
There are no perfect marriages and you don't have a choice if it doesn't work as to your expectation. You can't force her to stay with you for a lifetime if she's no longer contented with you. Remember, successful relationships involve each other's commitment to give and take.
You can't simply end your relationship by leaving your partner/wife alone in a corner. Legal matters are needed to make it rightful. You can consult a legal representative to help you out with your decision. Make sure as well that you won't regret whatever choice you'll make.
If you caught your wife having some condoms in her wallet but does not use one during your sexual encounters, you might start to wonder. You could hire a private detective if you want, but evaluate yourself first. Maybe there's something missing in you or you're not performing well as her husband.
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