Sunday, August 15, 2010

3 Ways To Restore A Relationship Rapidly

By Julie Wilson

Are you going through an especially rough patch with your partner? Every relationship has its ups and downs, but there are several ways that you can help to get your relationship back on track. Here are 3 ways to restore a relationship quickly and start being able to have fun together again.

Before you start any relationship saving action, you need to sit down and have a really good think about your relationship, where it is going wrong at present, how you are contributing to the downturn in the relationship and what you can do to help it. If you find that you could be contributing more positively to the relationship, then you need to do that and fully support your partner. It is also important to work on ways to make you a stronger and more confident and positive person in general.

Start out to fix your relationship by not asking for anything in return, or having any deep and meaningful discussions, but merely set some private, individual goals to make your partner's day a little bit rosier. It does not have to be anything big, in fact it is better if it is not.

There are so many little things that you can do to show your partner that you love them and support them. A few things that you can try include sending sweet emails or text messages throughout the day, give them a massage, give them a compliment, take them breakfast in bed or any number of possible little things that do not have to cost you a cent, but make a big difference to how they feel appreciated and cared for.

Another important thing that you can do to restore your relationship is to up the affection. Having physical connection is very important to maintain a relationship, but that does not mean that it just has to be confined to the bedroom. Instead, give random hugs or a peck on the cheek. Ruffling the hair, play fighting, tickling, pinching their butt or anything else that is a little flirty is also going to work wonders.

On top of this you should make sure that you are spending regular quality time together - what you do does not matter as long as it allows you to spend time together and it is fun for you both. Make sure that you are facilitating real conversations regularly by turning off the TV and turning on your ears.

As well as using these 3 ways to restore a relationship, you should make sure that you work on your relationship all the time and never take it for granted as this is when there are problems that begin to surface.

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