Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Save My Marriage: Start Today

By Tyshawn K. Gutierrex

Before you got married, did you ever think that you will be asking yourself this question, "How will I save my marriage?" Sadly, a lot of people have asked themselves this question, and since divorce rates are rising, more people in the future will be asking themselves the same question.

According to statistics, one in every three marriages is headed for divorce. And because of this, more and more people are thinking of ways on how to save their marriages. But first, you must be aware that there are many reasons why a marriage can fail: infidelity, insecurity, communication problem, and many more. Resolving these problems can be done as long as you and your husband will do your part.

Upon finding out that your husband has another woman, the first thing that crosses your mind will be divorce. Because of the hurt and pain that you are definitely feeling, you will immediately think about divorce.

But then, so many couples have already experienced this problem before. These people also feel the same way that you do right now. But after giving their situations a lot of thought. After hearing their spouse's plea for forgiveness and seeing the remorse on their faces. And after thinking about the children's well-being and how they still really feel for their spouse, these couples have decided to save their marriages. And they were very successful in keeping their marriages!

Remember that if these couples did it, you can also surely do it. And the great news is that there are so many methods that can help you save your marriage. One of the popular ways nowadays is marriage counselling. The only problem with this method is the fact that not everybody is open to attend marriage counselling.

What makes marriage counselling effective is the counsellor's capability to help you look at your marriage in a different way. The marriage counselor can also help in establishing the marital problems and how to properly address these. This is a very effective way in saving marriages especially if both spouses agree to attend counselling.

If your spouse does not want to go to marriage counselling, do not lose hope because there are still other ways that can help save your marriage. You can also turn to using self-help books to save your marriage. And today, there are so many self-help books to choose from. And with the privacy that this method has, chances are your spouse will be amenable to try this method in saving your marriage. It will be just be you and your husband or wife.

Aside from self-help books, you can also turn to the Internet for more sources. There are also ebooks available online that deal with approaches on how to save your marriage. I also remember that a few years ago, I was asking myself the same question, "How will I save my marriage?" And since my husband did not want counselling, I looked for an ebook and we tried it. And today, my husband and I are enjoying our newfound love and desire to stay together forever.

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