Cheating husbands almost always get a bad rap. No matter what led up to the cheating he is made out to be the bad guy by other women and often the women who are cheated on. There are a few women out there though who completely understand that we live in a world that isn't black and white but filled with shades of gray instead.
It's Not The Only Solution
The alternative solutions require a lot of work. It will also result to a lot of lonely nights, more tears and sleepless nights and the idea of forgetting a cheating husband who you still love so much.
His cheating on you has hurt your feelings. It could also make you really angry. It could even ruin the way you view your life with him together. But, it did not turn off the love you feel for him in the years you have spent together.
Your Options In Dealing With A Cheating Husband
Dealing with your cheating husband leaves you only few options. Here's the most common options in store:
1) Bury your head in the sand and hope the 2-ton elephant in the corner will disappear.
2. Face the fact and with heads up, work on the things in making your marriage back on the track.
3) Walk away from the marriage and leave your cheating husband behind.
Option 1 does not really work. You'll be surprised to know that some women still opt to choose option 1. It might help, not for too long and the time will come that you have to move on to options 2 and 3.
How can You Save Your Marriage after He Cheats?
First of all, you can't do it alone. You might be able to convince him to give it a try on your own but you are both going to have to work together in order to make your relationship work. You need to do three things to get your relationship back on track so that you have a hope of saving your marriage.
1. Time to clean up and let the past buried in the past.
2. Set goals, can be large or small about your relationship for the future and create a roadmap in accomplishing these goals together.
3. Light the dark room again. Rekindle the spark and let there be light in the rooms were both of you had walked together.
Don't spend one more day drowning in the misery of a cheating husband.
It's Not The Only Solution
The alternative solutions require a lot of work. It will also result to a lot of lonely nights, more tears and sleepless nights and the idea of forgetting a cheating husband who you still love so much.
His cheating on you has hurt your feelings. It could also make you really angry. It could even ruin the way you view your life with him together. But, it did not turn off the love you feel for him in the years you have spent together.
Your Options In Dealing With A Cheating Husband
Dealing with your cheating husband leaves you only few options. Here's the most common options in store:
1) Bury your head in the sand and hope the 2-ton elephant in the corner will disappear.
2. Face the fact and with heads up, work on the things in making your marriage back on the track.
3) Walk away from the marriage and leave your cheating husband behind.
Option 1 does not really work. You'll be surprised to know that some women still opt to choose option 1. It might help, not for too long and the time will come that you have to move on to options 2 and 3.
How can You Save Your Marriage after He Cheats?
First of all, you can't do it alone. You might be able to convince him to give it a try on your own but you are both going to have to work together in order to make your relationship work. You need to do three things to get your relationship back on track so that you have a hope of saving your marriage.
1. Time to clean up and let the past buried in the past.
2. Set goals, can be large or small about your relationship for the future and create a roadmap in accomplishing these goals together.
3. Light the dark room again. Rekindle the spark and let there be light in the rooms were both of you had walked together.
Don't spend one more day drowning in the misery of a cheating husband.
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