The better question to ask instead of how do you make yourself keep loving your cheating wife would be how do you make yourself stop loving her? The thing about a cheating wife is that you don't just suddenly stop loving her because she cheated. The emotions are deeper than a single act. It is much easier to keep loving her than it is to force yourself to stop.
But that doesn't mean that it will be a smooth and easy situation to keep on living with her or staying with her. What it signifies is that one bad act won't change a person you love overnight more so that it would change your feelings towards that person.
We all have a tendency to view the world with blinders that see only black and white. Or, rather want to see everything in black and white. Moral judgments are much easier to make that way. The only problem is that if we only see black and white we miss out on an infinite number of shades of gray and splashes of color. We miss out on things that would change our worlds and how we look at those worlds.
How do you keep loving your cheating wife?
Let your world be painted in red. Remind yourself of the passion and fire your wife has giving you reason to love her. Keep out of the bad times and instead keep your attention back on all the good times you both shared with each other. Allow those colors to be how you see her in the most picturesque way bright colors are supposed to.
Let the sun shine in. This is where you bring in bright splashes of yellow and sky blue. Remember all the brightness and sunshine she brings into your life. Remind yourself of all the ways she makes you laugh and smile. Think about how much better the cloudy days are to handle because you are sure there will be more sunny days ahead with her in your life.
Soften the edges and bring in some texture to tone your life's landscape by shaping in and defining your life portrait with shades of grey. Just be aware that as soon as you see her with a new eyes that are no intend to focus on the black and white she'll definitely look at you through a new pair of eyes. When you get to look at each other your new sets of eyes it would be just not be different to situation of being married to some new wonderful people. This is just but the right time to put everything behind and start once more with a clean slate as the new and improved persons you have come to be each day.
But that doesn't mean that it will be a smooth and easy situation to keep on living with her or staying with her. What it signifies is that one bad act won't change a person you love overnight more so that it would change your feelings towards that person.
We all have a tendency to view the world with blinders that see only black and white. Or, rather want to see everything in black and white. Moral judgments are much easier to make that way. The only problem is that if we only see black and white we miss out on an infinite number of shades of gray and splashes of color. We miss out on things that would change our worlds and how we look at those worlds.
How do you keep loving your cheating wife?
Let your world be painted in red. Remind yourself of the passion and fire your wife has giving you reason to love her. Keep out of the bad times and instead keep your attention back on all the good times you both shared with each other. Allow those colors to be how you see her in the most picturesque way bright colors are supposed to.
Let the sun shine in. This is where you bring in bright splashes of yellow and sky blue. Remember all the brightness and sunshine she brings into your life. Remind yourself of all the ways she makes you laugh and smile. Think about how much better the cloudy days are to handle because you are sure there will be more sunny days ahead with her in your life.
Soften the edges and bring in some texture to tone your life's landscape by shaping in and defining your life portrait with shades of grey. Just be aware that as soon as you see her with a new eyes that are no intend to focus on the black and white she'll definitely look at you through a new pair of eyes. When you get to look at each other your new sets of eyes it would be just not be different to situation of being married to some new wonderful people. This is just but the right time to put everything behind and start once more with a clean slate as the new and improved persons you have come to be each day.
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