Wednesday, August 25, 2010

The Patricia Arquette And Thomas Jane Divorce Story - The Second Time Around

By T Dub Jackson

Patricia Arquette, star of the television show Medium and Thomas Jane, known for his role on the HBO series "Hung" are once again on the outs. Divorce papers have been filed in what has been termed an amicable divorce.

They filed for divorce in 2009 but decided to try to work things out. Does this mean that all couples who try to work things out are doomed to failure or only buying a little more time?

This is not far from the reality. There are couples who are willing to put in more work to make the relationship the healthy success it has every possibility to be. On one hand there are couples who have other set of priorities, goals and dreams. There are times when those other goals or priorities and dream operate within the realm of the relationship but of course there are those times which they do not.

Your Marriage That Is Worth Fighting For

What could that be? The end point here is that a marriage is worth fighting for as long as parties are all willing to go for it. It is not possible for just one person to make or break a marriage by himself or herself alone. There is a need for both to work together or work against each other for that to happen.

When it comes to your marriage you may even have to convince the other person that it's worth fighting for but when you do this, the benefits can be truly amazing. Here are a few signs your marriage is worth saving.

The love is there still between you two.

Willing to make it a success is present in both parties.

You have not come to terms with running away yet.

The good times overshadows the bad times you have together.

Compatible, that is what you both are.

You have common goals, interests, and pursuits.

The theory of opposites attracts or the possibility of making an excellent is however not precluded in here. What is being posited here is that the signs provided are often good signs for common grounds or common interest in which a couple may start a good foundation.

A Marriage That Has To End

There are some times when it is just time to move on and end a relationship. Not all relationships are meant to be. Here are a few signs that it's time to let this one go.

The love is gone.

There is just but one-sided love in the marriage.

Abuse reigns in your marriage.

You've tried to save it and just can't make it work.

Drug abuse, addiction to gambling, or alcoholism is there to create havoc in your marriage.

It is likely that you may have deduced already that there are times when all you have to do is say goodbye. For Patricia Arquette and Thomas James that time may have arrived already.

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