You have been put through an emotional let down by your cheating wife. For you, it had been difficult to get your bearings back and that those preconceived notions on marriage, love and fairy tale endings are just that, tales of fairies. But of course that is not what it has to be. The fairy tale ending you wished for can be had still with the woman you love - even if in reality she had cheated on you.
Your first step is to make peace with your cheating wife. Need a little help? Try out these methods for finding forgiveness and making peace with the woman you love so you can both enjoy the long, happy, and healthy marriage you planned.
1) Forgive her for hurting you. The first step is completely and totally for you. This isn't about her although she will benefit from it. Your first priority is to rid your heart of the black mark that anger and feelings of betrayal leave behind. Forgive her for hurting you first and then move on to find forgiveness for deeper and older wounds. The more you forgive her the easier you will find it to love her all over again. More importantly, the better you will feel about the love you have for her. It will feel as though you've been held down by weights and are suddenly having them lifted off of you one by one until you suddenly feel weightless. The peace of forgiveness really is that powerful.
2) Fall for her again, and again. There is significance in remembering all those old reasons you have for her but if you can actually start over and raise a long and happy marriage together you need to work more and seek for ways to fall in love with her day after day and year after year. When you have no time except falling in love with each other all the time there will be no reason that you'll get distracted by some other things or persons.
3) Ask her for forgiveness. As the one who has cheated, she will most likely be stunned by such gestures. It is the guilt that she carries with her all this time that is the reason for that. It is a plain and simple fact that no one is really blameless when it comes to the failing of a relationship just as no one has to bear all the responsibility of the same. It is but the right time to ask for forgiveness and be sincere as well at the same time. Else you need not bother.
4) Be the man you know she loves. Your wife wants one thing more than anything else. She wants you to be the man she fell in love with. She loves the old carefree you, as much as he might drive her nuts sometimes. Be that man and win her heart a little more each and every day.
Your first step is to make peace with your cheating wife. Need a little help? Try out these methods for finding forgiveness and making peace with the woman you love so you can both enjoy the long, happy, and healthy marriage you planned.
1) Forgive her for hurting you. The first step is completely and totally for you. This isn't about her although she will benefit from it. Your first priority is to rid your heart of the black mark that anger and feelings of betrayal leave behind. Forgive her for hurting you first and then move on to find forgiveness for deeper and older wounds. The more you forgive her the easier you will find it to love her all over again. More importantly, the better you will feel about the love you have for her. It will feel as though you've been held down by weights and are suddenly having them lifted off of you one by one until you suddenly feel weightless. The peace of forgiveness really is that powerful.
2) Fall for her again, and again. There is significance in remembering all those old reasons you have for her but if you can actually start over and raise a long and happy marriage together you need to work more and seek for ways to fall in love with her day after day and year after year. When you have no time except falling in love with each other all the time there will be no reason that you'll get distracted by some other things or persons.
3) Ask her for forgiveness. As the one who has cheated, she will most likely be stunned by such gestures. It is the guilt that she carries with her all this time that is the reason for that. It is a plain and simple fact that no one is really blameless when it comes to the failing of a relationship just as no one has to bear all the responsibility of the same. It is but the right time to ask for forgiveness and be sincere as well at the same time. Else you need not bother.
4) Be the man you know she loves. Your wife wants one thing more than anything else. She wants you to be the man she fell in love with. She loves the old carefree you, as much as he might drive her nuts sometimes. Be that man and win her heart a little more each and every day.
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Don't make the mistake of thinking you won't need to do anything to get your ex wife back if she's the one who cheated. That isn't the case. This article, 4 Ways To Make Peace With Your Cheating Wife has free reprint rights.
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