For some, saying sorry is the hardest word to say. It is like pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanokoniosis - which is lung disease and the longest word in the dictionary. An apology is not considered sincere if it's not joined by the words "I'm sorry". It's should be straight from the heart.
The Center of Your Universe Shifts
When he cheats, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. He's just caring about you. Women react severely after they know that their man is craving for another woman. They will cry in the corner, cursing their man, and act like a crazy child.
Although it's unethical to others, you need to understand them. They have earthly needs that only another woman can give because of your situation. Instead of grieving, just look at the brighter side. In the end, you are still the winner.
Give everything that you can to be a good wife and a mother. Prepare a dinner or keep the house organize. He'll then appreciate what you did and you will catch his attention easily. You don't need to worry because everything will be back to normal after you gave birth.
Taking responsibility and recognizing your role. Have an extra responsibility and recognize your role in the situation without offering excuses is important to letting know that you understand the event and your actions.
Don't try to defend yourself or justify the situation. Apology is all about them and how they feel. It doesn't matter if the actions were intentional or not, the end result is the same.
The problem is that once you've had a baby you've become someone's mother. For some men that resemblance between you and his own mother are just too much for him to even consider touching you now that you've had his baby.
Unfortunately that doesn't change the way either of your feel about the other. He can love you very much and still cheat on you. Most men who cheat for this reason do not cheat due to lack of love. They cheat because they still have needs but are now unable to turn to you to meet those needs.
Waiting for You to Heal
Those are the words that most women used to describe what they felt while on the process of healing. It's hard and painful because they can't accept the fact that they were cheated because of one reason: they were pregnant and they couldn't perform their duty as a wife when it comes to earthy needs.
The Center of Your Universe Shifts
When he cheats, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. He's just caring about you. Women react severely after they know that their man is craving for another woman. They will cry in the corner, cursing their man, and act like a crazy child.
Although it's unethical to others, you need to understand them. They have earthly needs that only another woman can give because of your situation. Instead of grieving, just look at the brighter side. In the end, you are still the winner.
Give everything that you can to be a good wife and a mother. Prepare a dinner or keep the house organize. He'll then appreciate what you did and you will catch his attention easily. You don't need to worry because everything will be back to normal after you gave birth.
Taking responsibility and recognizing your role. Have an extra responsibility and recognize your role in the situation without offering excuses is important to letting know that you understand the event and your actions.
Don't try to defend yourself or justify the situation. Apology is all about them and how they feel. It doesn't matter if the actions were intentional or not, the end result is the same.
The problem is that once you've had a baby you've become someone's mother. For some men that resemblance between you and his own mother are just too much for him to even consider touching you now that you've had his baby.
Unfortunately that doesn't change the way either of your feel about the other. He can love you very much and still cheat on you. Most men who cheat for this reason do not cheat due to lack of love. They cheat because they still have needs but are now unable to turn to you to meet those needs.
Waiting for You to Heal
Those are the words that most women used to describe what they felt while on the process of healing. It's hard and painful because they can't accept the fact that they were cheated because of one reason: they were pregnant and they couldn't perform their duty as a wife when it comes to earthy needs.
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The fact that he doesn't want to hurt you can be endearing but it won't make the fact that he did cheat any less painful to confront. Before you make a move to try to get your ex back or save your marriage in this situation please try to see things from his point of view too.
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