Friday, September 10, 2010

Building An Attractive Interest Box And Profile In Online Dating

By Alan Robinson

Not every guys possess the freedom to going out on numerous social activities and interact with women on regular basis. It maybe because of lengthy working hour, single parent who must take care of his kids, or many other factors which make them unable to meet eligible girls. These circumstances make online dating for men turns into a popular alternative.

Certainly, the most crucial thing in online dating for men (and women) is the way you create your profile. In the world where you cannot display your body language, facial expression, or clever lines, the very first thing that will be looked into is your profile. Because of so many options accessible, women who find your profile creepy will instantly discard you without second thought.

If you are trying to meet and date women, here are a few things that you need to think about when you creating your profile in an online dating service or any regular social networking website:

1. Your Profile Photos

The very first rule here is NEVER use any webcam and have a photo of you smile in front of your PC; it'll shout "creepy!!" . Your profile photo must display your value and how people value you.

It must be either a) you are taking picture with something awesome or b) you are doing fun activities. For instance:

- You are taking picture in front of Eifel tower, at a beach with setting sun behind you, or at a hill with sunrise behind you.

- You are taking photo with a gorgeous girl and her body gestures shows that she's close enough with you. You can talk to one of your female friends for help on this matter.

- A picture of you diving, playing basketball, playing guitar, clubbing, getting together with your friends (ensure that there are women within your friends in the photo).

If you're serious about joining online dating for men, be careful with photos which you uploaded. Having unique or beautiful place behind you shows that you like travelling, adventurous, and intriguing. Having gorgeous woman beside you displays that you are "pre-selected" and all of a sudden you look far more attractive. And by display various solo and group activities, you convey that you possess excellent social skills and hobbies. All of that are great, but be sure that they convey the REAL you.

2. Interest Box

While revealing your details is required so you don't appear creepy or trying to hide your creepy interests, put mystery in it is a wonderful way to make your profile more appealing. You can write something like "my most passionate hobby entails mixing fancy sports cars and... something else. I am not telling you here!"

The rule is "value first" (harley davidsons, venturing around the world, studying various languages, etc), then express that you have another passion on something exciting and you are not revealing what it is. This is very captivating and women will curious about your "other" passion.

Contrary to the offline world, you get thousands of rivals in the world of online dating for men, therefore it is necessary to be slightly "tricky" to get the women. However, it's also important not to lie; do not write "me and my girlfriend" if you taking photos with your gorgeous female friend and do not lie about your passions.

If you start with lies, she might be upset when she discovers the truth. Therefore, don't write "into sports cars" if you don't, but if you understand many things and truly fascinated in sports car even though you don't possess one, it is okay to write "into sports car". The key is keeping half the truth without actually lying.

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