Thursday, September 23, 2010

4 Tips For Saving A Marriage

By Mary Landry

Have you ever seen a ghost? Of course you haven't; if you saw a ghost it wouldn't be a ghost. Ghosts are formless and cannot be seen with mortal eyes. Anyway, those are not the type of ghosts I desire to rescue your marriage from. The ghosts I want to save you from are the formless phantoms that may be haunting your marriage. The formless entities that threaten your marriage are very real indeed.

The most destructive ghost you could save your marriage from is fear. Fear is the spirit of mistrust, doubt and uncertainty. It is a very potent and destructive ghost. You cannot see Fear but if you look at your thoughts and feelings objectively you will recognize his evil presence. Fear makes you see things that aren't there, hear things that were not spoken, be sure of things that never even existed. Fear will twist your mind into a pretzel and still not let go of you. Fear will even convince you that you can't save your marriage and provide you a million reasons why not.

But you can save your marriage from the fear-ghosts. The better way to do it is by turning on lights, ghosts definitely dislike the light. The lights that will save your marriage are the lights of truth and reality. The lights have names too. They are called love, acceptance and unruffled patience. Once you turn on these lights with the switch of understanding you'll see straight through the ghosts of despair an exaggerated issues. You'll have the ability to rescue your marriage due to the fact that you will not be stumbling around in the darkness produced by the culprit ghosts.

4 Practical Things To Do

1) Put the love you have for your spouse ahead of your fears 2) Behave as you should; Do not allow your fears to drive you 3) Keep your spouse's flaws in perspective - neither of you are perfect 4) Tally the good things about your spouse, not the bad

Save your marriage relationship since it is certainly worth saving your family. Don't give up and don't despair; don't let the evil ghosts destroy you. You have the power to succeed quickly and simply. As soon as you save your marriage you save your entire family - and you save your children. But it does not end there; you save countless future generations.

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