I think I'm still in love with my cheating ex and I don't know what to do. I'm afraid of getting hurt again if we get back together but I'm more afraid of not giving our relationship a second chance. Where do I go from here?
Sound familiar? As much as you might believe that you are alone this is a more common sentiment than you realize. Once the anger and hurt of finding out you've been cheated on is vented with baseball bats, bad country music, or a weekend marathon of breakups gone horribly wrong movies many people in your situation realize that there are worse things in life than being cheated on and that one of those worse things is to face life without the object of your affection in it.
Coming to this realization doesn't leave you with a wide open world of choices though. The only real choice is to get your ex back as fast as is humanly possible.
Warning!
Speed, in this kind of situation, could be risky to your chances of success. A sense of promptness is great but a good preparation and planning is even better. It will save your efforts, time and emotional stress in the end.
The first thing you think of doing is getting into the relationship again without fixing the real damage of what cause the relationship to end. You end up in the end getting into another problem again with much bigger emotional damage. There is a better way on how to fix this however it may not be easy the way you want it to be.
How do I start?
Begin by holding back. It will be difficult. This goes against everything you want to do. But it is required in order for you to get some wanted emotional space so you can think of a plan that is reasonable than driven by your feelings.
Give your ex space. Be completely out of his life for a while. Never communicate with him. Delete his number if possible. Avoid places or events that you think you might bump into each other.
When you accomplish this, chances are all the emotional sentiments you have will be put aside and you begin to think clearly of what's best for your relationship. Then, your ex will get a quick look of what life can be without you as a regular partner. For sure, he'll miss you and that is what your purpose is more than anything else.
Sound familiar? As much as you might believe that you are alone this is a more common sentiment than you realize. Once the anger and hurt of finding out you've been cheated on is vented with baseball bats, bad country music, or a weekend marathon of breakups gone horribly wrong movies many people in your situation realize that there are worse things in life than being cheated on and that one of those worse things is to face life without the object of your affection in it.
Coming to this realization doesn't leave you with a wide open world of choices though. The only real choice is to get your ex back as fast as is humanly possible.
Warning!
Speed, in this kind of situation, could be risky to your chances of success. A sense of promptness is great but a good preparation and planning is even better. It will save your efforts, time and emotional stress in the end.
The first thing you think of doing is getting into the relationship again without fixing the real damage of what cause the relationship to end. You end up in the end getting into another problem again with much bigger emotional damage. There is a better way on how to fix this however it may not be easy the way you want it to be.
How do I start?
Begin by holding back. It will be difficult. This goes against everything you want to do. But it is required in order for you to get some wanted emotional space so you can think of a plan that is reasonable than driven by your feelings.
Give your ex space. Be completely out of his life for a while. Never communicate with him. Delete his number if possible. Avoid places or events that you think you might bump into each other.
When you accomplish this, chances are all the emotional sentiments you have will be put aside and you begin to think clearly of what's best for your relationship. Then, your ex will get a quick look of what life can be without you as a regular partner. For sure, he'll miss you and that is what your purpose is more than anything else.
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