Sunday, September 12, 2010

These Magic Moments

By Dr. Vance Hardisty

Mark became furious when his wife, Mindy, had an affair. "He's a jerk!" Mark fumed. That "jerk" was doing the things for her that Mark used to do before they were married. Mr. Jerk made Mindy feel beautiful, desirable and loved. Mark was very much in love with his wife. Unfortunately the only time he showed her that side was when he was in the mood for sex. Even then it was nothing much but raw passion. He wasn't able to save his marriage.

Mindy then went on to marry the "jerk" and was doomed to repeat the same patterns of neglect she had been in with Mark. That doesn't surprise us here at Love Relationship Headquarters. That's why we have felt compelled to help people get on a different pathway in their lives.

Women want to be worshipped and adored outside the bedroom as well as within. When a women does not get the feelings of appreciation outside the bedroom she will not feel like what she is getting in the bedroom is enough. Women want to receive attention for other things she is good at. Phyllis told us how her husband parks himself in front of the TV from the time he comes home to the time he goes to bed. He even ate his dinner in front of the TV. "I hate to say I'm jealous of the boob tube," she said, "but I feel as if he doesn't know I'm alive. I resent it."

She longs for attention from her guy in other ways, too. Jerilou complained that her husband plopped down in front of the TV the minute he got home for work, insisted that they eat in front of it, and watched it afterward until bedtime. "I hate to say I'm jealous of the boob tube," she said, "but I feel as if he doesn't know I'm alive. I resent it."

Both of you, if you haven't been filling each other needs to the fullest there is no time like the present to get started. You may be out of practice, or may have never learned exactly how to do this. We are here to help you. Strengthening and saving marriages is our business. It's what we've spent our lives learning how to do. We've seen a lot of successes because our message is unique.

Go to www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com. Start clicking away and discover some of the most helpful books and materials you'll ever have at your disposal. We want your marriage to be saved and if you think it doesn't need that, we can assure you that it does need to be made better.

Dr. Vance Hardisty International Speaker and Author Margaret Hardisty International Best Selling Author and Speaker Love Relationship Headquarters www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com

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