What does it take to be completely heartless? It's a better option than to be stagnant in a certain stage only to forget about your ex. Just let it happen and welcome the pain for you to totally move on.
If you are having a hard time getting him over, make yourself feel better by doing the following:
1) Vent. You heard right. It's time to vent and get it all out of your system. Find a good pillow, punching bag (make sure you know how to properly hit one of these before you go this particular route), work out routine, or just take some angry music and hit the local running trail and keep going until you feel some degree of release from the pain, anger, and bitter betrayal that keeps pulling you down. The emotional release will enable you to tackle other aspects of getting over a cheating ex with a clearer head.
2) Get out of the house. A self-imposed exile only leaves you with more time to sit home alone stewing over what has happened to you. Now is the time to get out and about with friends. Distract yourself from your problems at home. If you don't have a strong support system of friends and family locally, it's time to get out and meet some people. Take a class, join a group, or volunteer. There are plenty of ways to meet new people and make new friends.
3) A chance to date. Dating is a sign that you are ready to trust an opposite sex or could be how you take it; seriously or not. However, you deserve to find someone better. If you think no one could be better than your ex, it's okay - at least you tried. You have the opportunity to compare your feelings - helps you weigh things.
4) A new you. A new life. In order to stop the memories from taking over your mind, you have to end its chapter. You must put a final ending, a stop. It's so hard to step forward when you're mind is out of focus and still thinking of the things left behind. Face life with confidence and allow someone if there is, to help in your healing process.
If you are having a hard time getting him over, make yourself feel better by doing the following:
1) Vent. You heard right. It's time to vent and get it all out of your system. Find a good pillow, punching bag (make sure you know how to properly hit one of these before you go this particular route), work out routine, or just take some angry music and hit the local running trail and keep going until you feel some degree of release from the pain, anger, and bitter betrayal that keeps pulling you down. The emotional release will enable you to tackle other aspects of getting over a cheating ex with a clearer head.
2) Get out of the house. A self-imposed exile only leaves you with more time to sit home alone stewing over what has happened to you. Now is the time to get out and about with friends. Distract yourself from your problems at home. If you don't have a strong support system of friends and family locally, it's time to get out and meet some people. Take a class, join a group, or volunteer. There are plenty of ways to meet new people and make new friends.
3) A chance to date. Dating is a sign that you are ready to trust an opposite sex or could be how you take it; seriously or not. However, you deserve to find someone better. If you think no one could be better than your ex, it's okay - at least you tried. You have the opportunity to compare your feelings - helps you weigh things.
4) A new you. A new life. In order to stop the memories from taking over your mind, you have to end its chapter. You must put a final ending, a stop. It's so hard to step forward when you're mind is out of focus and still thinking of the things left behind. Face life with confidence and allow someone if there is, to help in your healing process.
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